Imposter syndrome is a silent killer

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11 students joined to land their next Program Manager role and navigate their imposter syndrome, portray their value, and land a job they deserve.

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The truth is I struggle with imposter syndrome.

The secret is that I don’t give it power over my actions.

It’s about being aware that it exists but taking action anyway.

Step 1: Recognize your fixed mindset

You might be telling yourself:

• “I’m not good enough”

• “I always do X.”

• “I’m too quiet.”

These are examples of negative self-talk (not rooted in facts).

Step 2: Get Uncomfortable

If you want to improve, you have to do the hard things.

Examples:

• Want to be a better public speaker? Go give a presentation.

• Want to be a program manager? Run various projects in your job.

• Want to be a content creator? Start posting three days a week.

Step 3: Get meaningful feedback

Feedback is the only way to know your shortcomings.

And it doesn’t always come from others; it can come from you.

• Do a retro at the end of the week

  • What went well? What didn’t go well?

  • What are the learnings for next time?

• Ask friends and/or colleagues

  • What can I do more of? What can I do less of?

Step 4: Detach your self-worth from work

Those with a growth mindset find sources of self-worth outside of work.

Detach from work and invest in things that align with your values:

• Relationships

• Interesting projects

• Community services

• Activities that spark joy

Step 5: Reframe by adding “..Yet”

Once you hear your fixed mindset, you can rewire your brain.

By adding “…Yet” you powerfully reframe.

• “I’m not a great leader…yet”

• “I’m not in my dream job…yet”

• “I’m not a very good writer…yet”

Here’s a cheat sheet (save for later).

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Until next time,

Jean

PS I’m opening up my calendar for one-on-one coaching 🎉.

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